Jeremiah 1:4-10; Romans 12:1-2
Presented April 27, 2008, by J.D. Kline
The Sixth Sunday of Easter
Quaker author Philip Gulley has a new book entitled For Everything a Season, a series of meditations based on the familiar text from Ecclesiastes 3, “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die, a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted . . .” The first meditation is based upon A Time to be Born, and he shares the story of his father, year after year on Philip’s birthday, telling Philip the story of unfolding events on the night of Philip’s birth. A ritual developed between Philip and his father, with the father asking, “Have I ever told you what happened the night you were born?” and Philip responding, “I don’t believe so.” And then would come the story of a 20-mile drive on a cold winter’s night through a snowstorm so intense that the outline of neighbor’s houses could scarcely be seen, with the defroster in the car not working, and Philip’s father nearly getting frostbite on his face from driving with his head out the window. And finally, after running a red light and being stopped by an officer, the family received a police escort the remainder of the way to the hospital.
Finishing the story, Philip’s father would conclude, “That makes you special.” It was a story, shares Philip Gulley, that frequently helped him through the hard times of growing up. “In my teenage years,” writes Gulley,
When my father and I were at odds, I would remember how he suffered frostbite to bring me safely into this world . . . and my heart would soften. I was a skinny child, the target of bullies. When beaten up and ridiculed, I would take comfort in the fact that I was ushered into this world with a police escort and they were not. It was a wonderful gift my father gave me, that story. He could not give me wealth or fame to ease my way, so he gave me that story and it provided a deep consolation.
Stories can indeed carry significant power in our lives, can they not? Even when Philip Gulley discovered, many years later, how embellished the story was, its power did not fade, for the primary message was not in the details, but in the affirmation that Philip was special, that Philip was loved.